Foundation

One of the foundational tenets of leadership is the idea of "Complain up, explain down", although I prefer "complain up, explain out". So what does this mean?

What?

The basic idea is:

Why?

Hopefully this is obvious, but it you complain, the people and teams that report to you might begin to copy your behavior. If you are complaining about a particular team or (even worse) an individual, you will likely end up damaging your relationship with that team or that person.

In the long term, complaining about others will only serve to create a toxic environment.

The Parent Trap

There's a similar idea with parenting. You should never complain about one of your children to another child. Rather, your frustrations with your children should be discussed with your partner, or perhaps with your parent(s).